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mother160fixation160in160dhlawrence160and160his160works160sons160and160lovers儿子与情人(编辑修改稿)内容摘要：

is dwells on the growth experience of the hero and the influence for young Paul. It analyzes the hero’s ―Oedipus Complex‖ and morbid psychology from the psychological angle. It deeply reveals the family crisis and the social roots, which cause Paul’s ―Oedipus Complex‖, fully reflects the bad influence of the environment to the people’s thesis gets through the understanding of Oedipus Complex to analyze the abnormal love between the mother and son in Sons and Lovers, and it analyzes the development of Oedipus Complex in Sons and Lovers. In the end ,it analyzes the influence of Oedipus Complex. 新疆大学科学技术学院毕业论文（设计） 4 and Lovers The Content of Sons and Lovers and Mrs. Morel Sons and Lovers was published in the 20th century. The novel tells a tragic story about Morel’s family. Mrs. Morel came from a decent family. Her sensitive, quiet, intellectual nature was drawn to Morel. They fall in love with each other at the party and married soon. Actually, her husband was not the one she thought before their marriage. She was well educated and full of romantic thought for love and marriage, which had been greatly satisfied before they married. After several months, they came out some problems. Mr. Morel is not considerate husband, except working on the coal mine and drinking in the bar. Mr. Morel seldom had munication with her. She was pletely disappointed. She transferred her love to her two sons. Physically, she was faithful, while spiritually she betrayed her husband still she died. , William and Paul When their first baby was born, Mrs. Morel transfers her attention from her husband to her first son, William. Mrs. Morel regards William as a pearl, she trusted William would advance into the upper classes of society. At that time the relationship between Mrs. Morel and William was verging on romantic love. Mrs. Morel had projected the disappointment from her marriage into excessive love for William. This plex relationship developed gradually. At first William was her favorite, and she was very upset when he took a job in London and moved away from the family. When William sickened and died a few years later. Paul became the focus of her life instead of William, her second son. Paul is a timorous and sensitive boy, he has strong emotion to his mother, 新疆大学科学技术学院毕业论文（设计） 5 and Mrs. Morel controlled her son .It was the most distinct feature between Paul and Mrs. Morel. Paul sought to break free of his mother through developing relationships with other women. However, He could not find a balance between mother and other women. Paul, Mrs. Morel and Miriam Paul fell in love with Miriam, who lived on a farm not too far from the Morel family .He developed relationships with Miriam step by step. They carried on a very intimate, but purely platonic, relationship for many years. Mrs. Morel did not approve of Miriam, and this was the main reason that Paul did not marry her. He constantly wavered in his feelings towards her. From beginning to end, Mrs. Morel was an impeded factor during Paul and Miriam’s staying together, and Miriam, as Mrs. Morel said to absorb soul of her son, plicated the relationships of Paul and his mother. The love triangle stirred up the new conflicts. The relationship and Miriam’s love grew. Paul and Miriam’s first bond was their mutual love of nature. However, Paul’s relationship with Miriam was one where the love was not allowed to flourish. Although there was no doubt that there was love between the two, the forces around them created tension that suppressed it. Miriam believed herself not nearly as beautiful as she really was. Because of this she was always looking for things to love her. In the case of Paul she believed that if Paul wanted to need her, she could take care of him. However, this was never allowed to happen. Paul’s mother, Mrs. Morel, already occupied this space in his life. Thus the relationship between the two was a struggle for an identity. The relationship was a struggle between Paul and his mother and Paul and Miriam. Mrs. Morel loathed Miriam, who was Paul’s first lover. From the start, understanding that the girl’s deep love of her son would oust her, ―She is not like an ordinary woman, who can share my son with me, she wants to absorb him. She wants to draw him out and absorb him till there is nothing left of him, even for himself. He will never be a man on his own feet—she will suck him up‖. (。 187) He even confessed to his mother: ―I really don’t love her, I 新疆大学科学技术学院毕业论文（设计） 6 talk to her, but I want to e home to you.‖(。 66)Paul strengthened the connections between the two women when he fused his mother and Miriam through his painting. His mother provides the artistic inspiration, and Miriam helped him shape the final product. But this blending confused Paul’s sexual desires, which was the most evident when the image of his mother, and not Miriam appeared. In a word, it was Mrs. Morel who dominated her son’s spirit. Though Miriam had devoted herself to Paul physically, she could not have him pletely. What she wanted was ―mental‖ love. Paul’s mother was the major conflicts. Paul’s relationship with his mother was very dominating. Finally, giving in to his mother, he broke it off with Miriam. He thought Miriam had never belonged to him, though they had sexual relationships. He was physically intimate with Miriam, but spiritually stuffed for his mother. He failed to balance the conflicts on Miriam and his mother. Paul, Mrs. Morel and Clara Paul was deeply attracted by Clara when they first met in farm. He was extremely fascinated by her body though she was seven years older than him. Clara Dawes was the sensuous older woman who came to replace Miriam as the love interest in Paul’s life. It was with Clara that Paul learned the importance of sex。