chinesewomenbereavedbysuicidethehongkong

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act Phase) Received the bad news Viewing the body Handling the reporters and different professionals • 咁佢同我講話你個囡囡暈低係街到，咁佢即刻都唔敢同我講嫁 …. 咁我當時其實我好驚，咁我啦啦聲啦，又落雨喎，咁我啦啦聲即刻去搵的士。 去既時候呢啲雨落得好大，咁我好心急，咁警察係咁樣打電話黎 …. • “I got the call from the Police, telling me that my daughter was fainted and sent to the hospital…I was in great fear and hurriedly got into a cab…It was raining heavily outside and the Police kept calling me…I know it should be something serious…” (case 8) • 嗰個女仔係歇斯底里咁喊，有記者，有其他記者，佢係喊住唔俾佢吔影，因為佢嘅遺書，佢嘅遺誌寫住，最後唔好見報，嗰女仔就歇斯底里，我當時就掛住嗰住嗰女仔，挂住我嗰老公，掛住來嘅人 • “His girl friend cried hysterically. Re were reporters. We tried to stop anyone taking photographs as it was my son’s wish not to in the headlines of papers. He stated it in his death notes…” (case 5) Findings: The processual challenges (Working Phase) Notifying other members Arranging the funeral Revisiting the scene • 地一日都喺屋企，即係我好似 … 亦都唔敢出門口，諗緊點辦呢，點通知佢屋企人呢 … 因為佢有阿爸阿媽呢 • “…I kept on thinking how to notify other family members…He still has his aged parents…” (Case 2) • 有 ..咁當時呢 ,d人亦都叫我唔好去架啦.你係佢媽媽 ,你唔好去啦佢話 ,叫我同我先生都唔好去 … 所以既野都係我個大女去搞 , 因為呢 ,佢地呢就話如果我地去搞呢樣野會令到我個仔好唔安落 ,日後 ..個心唔舒服 ,佢已經揀左呢條路 ,即係佢地 d人話 . • “Other suggested me not to go the funeral as we are parents…I left everything to my eldest daughter to arrange…Yet, I am unsettled…” (Case 1) Findings: The processual challenges (Adjustment Phase) To share or not To move or not To explore or not • 即但係果時我拒絕，因為果時我好驚，我唔想去俾人知。 其實到呢刻而家呢刻我唔想俾人知，即除非果啲人 …有啲人都唔知，同埋呢我個女唔喺度住呢，有啲人鄰居呀，啲人唔知我個女自殺嫁，咁可能呢樣野都減輕左我個壓力 • “ I don’t want other to know about it…Not knowing about the death of my daughter as well as her suicide…It helps to reduce my stress….”(Case 8) Findings: The processual challenges (The Haunting Experience) Birthdays Festivals: Lunar New Year, MidAutumn Fathers’ Day or Mothers’ Day Public Examination Result Dissemination Aftermath Issues : • Digestion of Bad Ne。